The concept of a dream home, in theory, is by all means dreamy- finding that perfect place to call home, the place the suits your needs and desires to a tee… but, if you’re looking for a dream home as a couple, the dreaminess can quickly become a nightmare, where conflicting ideas clash and cast a vast shadow of doubt and confusion. With the two that it takes to tango, a delicate dance can melt into a tug ‘o’ war- if you don’t development a system to explore your mutual parameters and come to some sort on consensus. After all, you both need to be happy with your new home.

So, here’s where a certain amount of flexibility will need to come into play, and where your initial vision of the perfect dream home may need to transform somewhat. But, fret not, there’s nothing more exciting than realizing two minds can come together and actualize a dream “together”.

First off, it’s important to have this discussion about what you want in a home before soliciting the help of an agent. Truly, you don’t want to be out there looking at homes, only to realize you’re on opposite sides of the fence. This will just create tension for all parties involved, and end up costing you a lot of time and energy.

So it’s advised that once you’ve decided to purchase a new home, that you first sit down separately and make up your own personal list of all the parameters that would define your dream home. Include such things as location, style of home, lot size, waterfront or not, urban or suburban, number of bedrooms, landscaping, special features, condition (would you rather a place that you’ll renovate to your liking or a home that’s already up to snuff). With this list go as big as you want with all the things that you’d ideally want in a dream home. Now is your chance to get it all down on paper and rejoice!

But… here’s the catch. The next step is to sit down with your partner and to share your lists. Try not to make comments, like, ” Oh God no…. you don’t want to live there, do you honey? Be respectful and initially just listen as objectively as possible to each person’s list of dream home parameters.

From here you can start another list- together. Discover any points of commonality between your two separate lists and to list them under, “our dream home”. There may only be a couple, or there may be quite a few. Once you have your list of common points, open up a friendly conversation about why you are both interested in these particular parameters. You may find that this dialogue progresses, and that you begin to find some other common desires. Make sure you jot them down as well.

Once you’ve established this positive connection, where you realize you have some common ideas from which to establish a framework, then go back and open up a discussion about the parameters that seem to be at odds. Let each person voice why they feel each of their parameters is important. The other can then explain why this is not important to them, or likewise can express that they may be willing to be flexible on this point. From here you can create another couple of lists. One can be called the “maybe our dream home”, and in it you can put the points/parameters that may not be 100% aligned on, but where there seems to be some room for negotiation. The other two lists can remain as your individual lists, and these will contain the points/parameters that you can’t seem to come to mutual agreement on- yet.

From here you need to decide that you want some of those “maybe our dream home” parameters to get on to the “our dream home” list. So have a thorough discussion of all the pros and cons on your “maybe” list and then see what seems to want to make the jump onto the “our dream home” list.

Pat yourselves on the back for making great progress. Next, you might consider going back to your individual lists and seeing what hypothetically would fit with your established “our dream home” parameters. Maybe one partner will become more flexible on certain points or features now that the initial vision has changed. Play around with the left over puzzle pieces and mutually see what can fit together to create your new idea of a dream home- an idea you’ve built together and can both love and enjoy.

You are psychic. You can use your psychic awareness to improve your daily life and you can share your psychic gift by helping others! How do I begin?

Tip #1

Connect to Intention. Dr Wayne Dyer is a great inspiration to me. I love his book, “The Power of Intention”. Through intention, I created an affirmation that I suggest you write down on a 3 X 5 card and read upon rising in the morning and before going to sleep at night to imprint this goal into the unconscious part of your mind. The affirmation is “Every day, I am becoming more and more psychic”.

Tip #2

You have to believe that you are psychic. When I first began psychic reading, I wondered if I was making up the information for my clients. I thought that perhaps I had a wild imagination! Fear would creep in for me because I wanted to get it right. Internally I felt paralyzed when I shared the things I was seeing, hearing, feeling. I focused on accessing the quality of TRUST. I connected to the small quite voice within that said “Joanna, it’s okay, give the information and all will turn out well.” When I heard the other voice “You’re making it up. Don’t say it, you’ll look stupid!”

Tip #3

PRACTISE! PRACTISE! PRACTISE! The way I overcame my fear was to keep psychic reading. After each reading, I received confirmation that the information was correct. The more I read, the more confident I became and so now over 1,000 psychic readings later, I still hear the voice of doubt inside however the voice of trust is more strongly developed inside me. I acknowledge the voice of doubt and I do not follow its instruction. Do not give up, the psychic pathway is a rich and rewarding experience!

Tip #4

Open your heart and your mind to being a receiver. Visualize the top of your head as a “radio antennae” that can pick up psychic transmissions through the airwaves. Radio waves are invisible to the human eye yet we know they exist or how would we hear people and music on the radio? Let your senses pick up on the unseen energies that exist around you.

Tip #5

Breathe! I cannot stress this enough. As you awaken your psychic senses, you will notice that you become more sensitive. You may experience these feelings because your mind, body and soul will be attracting more energy than it is used to feeling. By the simple action of deep focused breaths, you will clear any excess energy enabling you to remain calm and centered.

Tip #6

Meditation! I do some form of meditation every day. You may like to try a guided meditation CD to help you focus. Many of my clients have told me that they find it hard to sit, be still and meditate, too many thoughts arise for them and they feel bad that they cannot be perfect at meditation. There is no such thing as a perfect meditation! You could try “Soul Abundance” my guided meditation CD. It takes you on a powerful inner journey through visualization that will definitely heighten your psychic senses!

Tip #7

Listen! Do you notice how much inner chatter is constantly active inside your head? Are you aware of the thoughts you are having? I suggest you practice active listening. It is amazing how this simple action brings your focus inwards. As you hear your thoughts, observe them, do not judge. You will be able to assess how positive or negative your thoughts are and that you can have positive and negative occur simultaneously. This exercise will better prepare you for clairaudience, known as the ability of psychic listening.

Tip #8

Focus! Do you find yourself easily distracted? Are you fully conscious and aware in your environment right now? Focus upon being present in your environment. Observe what surrounds you. Listen to the multitude of sounds. Feel how the air touches your skin. Close your eyes for a moment and watch from an inner stance the activity that is occurring within you. With this knowledge, your psychic ability will strengthen!

Tip #9

Tone “Om” several times or sing your favorite songs in the shower. This is an excellent way to clear the body of any blocked energy. Not only does it open the throat chakra for psychic reading, you will fine tune your energy field in preparation for receiving psychic information effortlessly from your guides!

Tip #10

Exercise! The more psychic you become, the more energy is channeled through your body. Yoga is a wonderful way to release any blockages from your mind, body and soul. When I started the practice of yoga, it opened my third eye, the space between my eyebrows to clairvoyance meaning to see things psychically. I would see colors dancing in my inner vision. It was amazing! You can do it to!

I pass this rum shop every morning as part of the school run and find the slogan on the front of it truly inspirational, â??Follow Your Dreamsâ?. Seeing that slogan every morning is a good reminder to myself to keep on believing in myself and to keep on striving to become a success with my business ventures.

It really is as simple as having a dream and realising that the dream doesnâ??t have to remain a dream. As Walt Disney said, â??All your dreams can come true if you have the courage to pursue themâ?, wise words indeed from a visionary genius.

You just have to, dare to dream the dream and then pursue it with all your heart, will power and conviction and believe that it is truly achievable. The only thing that can stop you from succeeding is yourself.

As we all know in life you will come across those that will tell you that what your are trying to achieve cant be done or that  you are just not capable of achieving it or that you are just a dreamer. Well just because such people are too afraid to dream the dream and expand their horizons, it doesnâ??t mean that you are tarred with the same brush as them.

Remember that whatever your dreams are, that they are  not actually going to happen unless you take the necessary actions and steps, as well as putting in the hard work and effort to make them a reality. So why don’t you get dreaming and figure out what you really desire out of life, why settle for anythng less!

â??If you can dream it, you can do it.â? Walt Disney

If you are in search of an efficient free meditation technique, then you should know where to look for it. And the best idea is to start your search with the help of the Internet, since there are wide ranges if specialized websites that can offer you exactly what you need, meaning free meditation exercises, free guidance and the techniques you need in order to relax and to reduce stress and tension.

Can I Count on a Free Meditation Technique?

Meditation is an actual healing process that can not hurt you, but it can have a wide range of beneficial results, in exchange. As opposed to medications and other treatments, meditation does not come along with a package of side effects. So, basically, none of the free meditation techniques can do you any wrong. The only thing they can do is to be more or less efficient.

The answer to the above question is simple: when it comes to meditation, the only one who can observe the results is you. And if you are actually feeling better, less stressed and more joyful, then you know that you chose the right free meditation technique and that you are applying it correctly.

Are There More Types of Meditation Techniques?

When looking for the best free meditation technique, you should know that the first one you read might not be the one for you. Undoubtedly, there is an impressive range of meditation exercises, from the simple ones that are destined to beginners to the most complex ones that combine numerous breathing techniques and additional equipment.

Furthermore, there are general meditation exercises that are meant to reduce stress and tension and there are certain meditation exercises that are specifically destined to ameliorate a certain health condition. Moreover, there are meditation exercises for women, for the elder ones and for other categories of people with different needs. All in all, you are dealing with an impressive range of meditation techniques, all with various roles and purposes.

Which One Is the Right Free Meditation Technique for Me?

The only one who can know the answer to the above question is you, simply because meditation works differently from one individual to another and you are the only one who is actually feeling the results. However, when you are looking for a free meditation technique, you should only search on specialized websites, websites that can offer you the information you need in order to mediate successfully. These websites should provide clear guidance and step-by-step easy to follow programs, information that you can understand and special recommendations.

But remember: when you are about to start a new free meditation technique, you should leave from the premise that it might not be the right one for you. With such a wide range of meditation exercises, that all have different intensities and even different results, choosing the best and most suitable meditation technique can be a difficult tasks.

What you should do is you should try more meditation exercises before you decide which one is the right one for you. You can try both passive and active meditation exercises, you can try brainwave meditation, you can opt for a guided and free meditation technique, and you can try a candle meditation session and many more, until you find the one that brings the best range of effects. Good luck!

The psychic healing allows us to have a healthy mind and body. And from the spiritual point of view, psychic healing allows people to recognize their pure and luminous nature.

The being’s pure nature is never contaminated, it is only darkened by the ignorance, and it is for this reason that the psychic healing is possible, and it shouldn’t only be an interest of the sick persons, but an objective of the whole humanity.

At the same time psychic healing is also the capacity that has any individual of transmitting healing spiritual energy to another individual.

The healing looks for to reestablish the health there where the illness has originated, and that place is not necessarily the physical place where the ailment has shown.

A psychic healing can alleviate the pain, restore the lost functions and even improve the quality of the chronic patients’ life. For that reason, it is highly advisable when a patient arrives to a plateau in his improvement, or he recovers in a smaller measure than what was expected.

The psychic healing is a way to let the past behind and walk toward God, I should say that it is not an alternative medicine itself, but rather a therapy that should be used as a complement of the treatment prescribed by the doctors in each case.

THE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE KARMA

Before anything else it is necessary to clarify what’s the karma. Karma is a Sanskrit word that means action. Not only physical action, but also thought in action and word in action.

On the other hand the karma is also the law of cause and effect, that is to say that the words, thoughts and actions of our past lives, generate impressions in the causal body, which then are manifested as the karma by which we have to go through in this life (we must also add to it the karmic consequences of what we do in this life)

Talking about the psychic healing, we can say that the illnesses that we suffer in this life, are the karmic consequences of what we did in the past. That is to say that when the karma matures, the illness manifests itself.

We all have a nature that is pure, luminous, and that it is not contaminated by any mental factor, but when the poisons of the attachment and the ignorance, become part of our mind as a karmic consequence, the physical manifestation of the illness takes place.

IS THE KARMA THE ONLY CAUSE OF ILLNESSES?

NO, there are four different causes for the illnesses:

The environment: where all kinds of illnesses transmitting microorganisms exist (that attack us faster when there’s lack of hygiene and stress).

Bad feeding: not well balanced diets, insufficient and inadequate feeding (excess of fat, consumption of red meats, alcohol, excess of fried food, etc.)

Subtle energy: Subtle negative energy that can come from other human beings and from the astral plane.

The karma: although I have highlighted it as the fourth item, the karma is in fact not only a source of illnesses, but a source that contains and causes the three previous causes.

The emotions, the attitudes and the beliefs, can also have a negative effect in the person’s health, but the health is ultimately determined by the karma.

CAN EVERY BODY BE HEALED?

If you want a short and direct answer:YES, psychic healing can heal everybody. But this question deserves a special explanation.

If psychic healing can be applied to everybody, does that mean that all terminal sick persons can heal?

YES, the psychic healing can heal even the terminal sick persons. although they might end up dying, since the physical cure of the illness is not always possible.

The first thing that we should understand is that everybody will die in some moment, either for a terminal illness, or for a slide in the bathing tub. Then the objective of the healing is not to avoid a person death. This is outside of the reach of any human being.

The psychic healing embraces a much wider concept than the idea of avoiding the death, the psychic healing goes beyond the idea of life and the death, because in fact it is looked for to heal the mind, to heal what has caused the appearance of the karmic illnesses.

A person can recover from a sickness and not be healed from it, this way the karmic roots of that illness might make it appear again in this same life or in the following one, or they will make the person go through similar pain situations until he learns what the karma intended to teach him.

Psychic healing doesn’t require the patient to believe in what the healer believes, neither that he understands what his healer does, reason why it is not a faith cure.

WHICH IS THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN THE HEALING AND THE MEDIC SCIENCE?

The psychic healing and the medic science work on two different aspects of the human being. The psychic healing looks for to eliminate the karmic causes of the illness, while the medic science look for to eliminate the physical manifestations of the illness.

Then if the doctor prescribes us a medication, it is necessary to take it and to continue in full with the treatment as he prescribed it until the end of the physical manifestation of this illness (if it is possible to achieve it) .

Once we have been able to eliminate the physical manifestations of the illness, we might consider ourselves cured, but this is not necessarily true. If the illness has had a karmic origin, and the person has not received a psychic healing, that same illness or another situation that makes the person go through the same kind of experiences, will show up again.

It is necessary to take appropriately care of the body because it is the temple of our soul, but it is also necessary to be in charge of the person’s mind and to look for its psychic healing, until the person becomes an illuminated one. Then and only then it will be able to enjoy the full healing.

PSYCHIC HEALING AND ILLUMINATION

The illumination is a state in which the person is able to take contact and conscience of his true spiritual nature, and it is also said that an illuminated person is a person that has wakened up of the dream of his existence or from Maya’s illusion.

An illuminated person is a person that is able to eradicate suffering from his life, although the pain can continue being part of is existence, because the illuminated has interpreted the reality as it really is.

WHAT IS REQUIRED TO HEAL?

The answer to what is required to heal could not be simpler: what is required to heal is to have a sincere desire to do good, a disinterested desire to do god to someone else.

Once you have the desire to do good, you need to offer yourself to God, so that it uses us as a healing channel.

This is the reason why the healer can not be affected by the sick person’s negative energy, neither he should fear in any way the damage of his own energy, since it is not his own energy the one that he should transmit, he is only acting as a channel for the Divine energy.

Does the healer need to be a saint or a person of superior nature?

I believe that the best answer that can be given is an image: If for a dirty channel runs water, water doesn’t care how dirty it is the channel, water will always be water. And while in the physical plane the water can be contaminated, in the spiritual plane the Divine energy is always pure and uncontaminated, and it doesn’t care about the purity of the channel that it uses.

WHO CAN PRACTICE PSYCHIC HEALING?

Any person that gets consciously and energetically ready can practice healing, because the power to communicate with God and to offer oneself like a tool for the healing of others, it is a helping ability inherent to all human being

It is important to remember that we don’t heal with our energy, we are only the channels through which the Divine energy flows, reason why the Divine intervention, doesn’t conclude when we finish our healing exercise, but rather the healing continues acting on the other person for as much time as God considers it necessary.

In fact all healing exercises should go accompanied by a teaching by which we acknowledge the sick person that we will help him to establish an energetic connection with The Supreme Being, but that he can also request it without our help.

HEALING METHODS

The older healing practice that is known is the Ayurvedic Medicine that it has being practiced in India for about 3500 years. But there are many other healing arts among which we can highlight the Reiki, the Thai Chi, the Yoga, the Mind Control, the Transcendental Meditation, etc.

I have written for you two exercises that can help you in this topic (they are both in Spanish only):

How to heal yourself (CD # 34)

How to heal others (CD # 39)

DURING HOW MUCH TIME MUST THE HEALING BE PRACTICED?

In some cases a single practice of the healing will be enough, but it is generally a process of progressive improvement, for that reason you shouldn’t get discouraged if immediate results are not obtained.

The energy transferred by means of the healer transforms the patient, he will feel more calm down and confident and he will surely have a change in its attitude and in the quality of its life.

THE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE CHAKRAS

The chakras are thousands of energy centers that are distributed throughout the whole body, although there are 7 bigger chakras that are aligned along the spine, from the root, to the crown.

Most of the healing methods among which we can highlight the Acupuncture, the Do In, the Shiatsu, and the Reflexology work over the energy points of the smaller chakras, but as the Aura is an energy that depends on the energy flow of the chakras, you can work on any part of the body to produce a healing.

The chakras of a healthy person are open and they work in a harmonic form, affecting this way all the functions of the body. While in a sick person they are blocked or they work in insufficient way.

The base of the healing is the restoration of the good flow of the energy through the chakras.

HEALING IN GROUP

When a group of people unites themselves to request for the healing of a person, the healing effect is increased because the multiple channels through which the love of all the participants and the Divine energy work, are united.

And when the healing is practiced using the visualization, then the physical limitations of the distance disappears, that is to say that a healer may heal people that are not physically next to the healer.

The distance healing is something that today is more easily accepted by the western science, since the experiments of the French Quantic Physical Alain Aspect, have demonstrated that: even when a couple of subatomic particles are separated in the space, what happens to one of the particles can have effect on the other ones.

There have also been carried out experiments where the DNA of donors located 80 Km away from the donors, have reacted in the same way than the donors, under emotional stimulation.

HOW ARE THE HEALINGS PRACTICED?

The basic procedure for he healing it is to place the hands of the healer over the affected person’s sick area, and to imagine that God uses us like a channel, so that through our hands the positive energy is transfused to the patient.

When the hands imposition technique, is practiced with the positive visualization, then the healing becomes a tool that can be used to help distant patients. The use of certain symbols and rituals, as the use of candles, incense and glasses of water are more to propitiate the creation of a mental state for the healer and the patient.

The healing is in fact only a special way of praying, and in the prayer one puts the hands over the patient, and at the same time request the help of God who will ultimately decide how and when the fruits will be picked up.